Coping With Memories, Triggers and Reminders
Seeing or hearing something that reminds you of your traumatic experience can trigger bad memories. What can you do to reduce your stress about these upsetting memories?
What is a Trigger?
A trigger is a feeling, memory, smell, sound, or sight that triggers a bad feeling.
Trauma reminders can cause your body to react without much warning. Simple reminders of your traumatic experience such as seeing or hearing something similar to your actual experience can cause intense physical reactions. This in turn can increase stress.
Even thoughts about your trauma that come without warning can cause a strong physical response.
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Identify your Triggers
When you feel triggered, write down what you were doing, your reactions and thoughts that followed, and whether it was difficult to manage your response. Here are some things that you might notice:
- Places
- Conversation topics
- People or their characteristics
- Dates
- Your own stress level
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Managing your Triggers
There is a 3-step skill to RID yourself of uncontrolled responses to triggers:
Step 1: Relax
Step 2: Identify what is triggering you
Step 3: Decide how to react to the trigger
Relaxation strategies such as muscle relaxation and positive mental imagery can help you manage stress reactions and allow you to cope with unexpected triggers.
Over time, you will respond less intensely and less frequently to triggers.
Last reviewed March 2009
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