Diabetes: Coping with your feelings about your diet
Our emotions influence what we eat,
when we eat, and how much we eat. So, negative feelings can interfere with your
ability to follow your diet for
diabetes.
- If you feel that certain foods, such as
chocolate cake, are "bad," you may feel guilty after eating a
piece.
- If you are angry because you think you can't eat the foods
you like, you may feel resentful.
- If you are afraid that you may
gain weight or develop other problems, you may not eat enough food.
Once you accept your negative feelings about diabetes and
your diet, you will be more likely to let go of these feelings; then you can
more easily learn and successfully follow a healthy diet.
Your
feelings can also help you follow your diet for diabetes. If you feel like you
are doing something good for your health, you may feel motivated. Then, you may
feel even better about your diet and yourself.
To deal with your
feelings effectively:
- Learn about your diet for diabetes. You will be
surprised to learn that you can have all the types of foods you like. All you
need to do is fit them into your meal or snack plan.
- Talk with
other people who successfully follow the diet for diabetes. Find out what foods
they like and how they have worked them into their meals.
- Try new
foods and new recipes to put some variety into your meals so you will not feel
deprived.
Feelings can be positive or negative. Feelings affect how we think and
behave. Dealing with a negative feeling means:
- Recognizing it. Name the feeling, whether it is
anger, sadness, resentment, fear, or something else. For instance, some
pregnant women are afraid that their baby might be harmed by
diabetes.
- Accepting it. Feelings are not right or wrong. You are
not a "bad" person because you have certain feelings. It is what you do with
your feelings that matters.
- Letting go of it. Once you have named
and accepted your feeling, you can release its hold on you.
Test Your Knowledge
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There are no right or wrong feelings, and you are not
a "bad" person for having negative feelings.
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True
This answer is correct.
There are no right or wrong feelings, and you
are not a "bad" person for having negative feelings. You can deal with them by
recognizing them as feelings, accepting them, and letting go of them.
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False
This answer is incorrect.
There are no right or wrong feelings, and you
are not a "bad" person for having negative feelings. You can deal with them by
recognizing them as feelings, accepting them, and letting go of them.
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Recognizing anger and resentment toward the diet for
diabetes is the first step in dealing with those feelings.
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True
This answer is correct.
Recognizing anger and resentment toward
following the diet for diabetes is the first step in dealing with those
feelings.
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False
This answer is incorrect.
Recognizing anger and resentment toward
following the diet for diabetes isthe first step in dealing with
those feelings.
Negative feelings
can get in the way of your ability to learn about and follow your diet, which
is very important for keeping your blood sugar level within your target
range.
- Feeling deprived of your favorite foods may
cause you to eat more of those foods, resulting in high blood sugar
levels.
- Feeling afraid of complications from diabetes may cause you
to eat too little food, resulting in low blood sugar
emergencies.
- Feeling angry or resentful about having to follow a
special diet may cause you to resist learning about the diet, which will affect
your ability to carry out your treatment.
Test Your Knowledge
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Negative feelings do not interfere with your ability
to follow a balanced diet.
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True
This answer is incorrect.
Negative feelings can interfere with your
ability to follow a balanced diet. They may cause you to resist learning about
and following the diet.
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False
This answer is correct.
Negative feelings can interfere with your
ability to follow a balanced diet. They may cause you to resist learning about
and following the diet.
Give yourself permission
People often think that
following a diet for diabetes means giving up foods they like and having to eat
foods they don't like. If you think a diet for diabetes means you can't eat any
of the foods you like, try the following exercise:
- As completely as you can, fill in the four
lists of foods on the
food list card
(What is a PDF document?).
- Examine your lists. Is your "bad for me" list very
similar to your "foods I like" list? Is your "good for me" list similar to your
"foods I dislike" list? If you think a diet for diabetes has only foods you
don't like, consider this.
- There are no "good" or "bad" foods. All
foods can fit into a diet for diabetes.
- You don't have to give up
the foods you like. You can learn how to fit them into a balanced diet.
- Cross out the foods in the "foods I dislike"
list. You don't have to eat them. You can eat any of the foods in the other
three lists. You may need to eat some of the foods (high-sugar foods) in the
"foods I like" list in smaller amounts and less frequently to prevent high
blood sugar.
Recognize your feelings
From the list below, check
all the feelings you have about a diet for diabetes. Add any other negative
feelings you have about following the diet.
- ___ Confused
- ___
Afraid
- ___ Angry
- ___ Deprived or
resentful
- ___ Resistant
- ___
Other___________________________________
Identify what you may be afraid of, angry about, or
resistant to in the
feelings diary (What is a PDF document?).
Don't judge yourself by your feelings. It is what
you do with them that matters.
Let go of your negative feelings
Just identifying
why you have a negative feeling is not enough to rid you of it—you will need to
do something to let go of it. Complete the section of the feelings diary about
how you plan to deal with each negative feeling .
You can let go
of negative feelings by:
- Writing about what you feel and reading aloud
to yourself what you have written.
- Talking with your family, a
friend, or your diabetes specialist. You may learn that your negative feeling
is based on something that is not true.
- Joining a diabetes support
group. Most people with diabetes have had negative feelings and are willing to
share how they dealt with those feelings. Call your local affiliate of the
American Diabetes Association to find support groups in your
area.
- Getting counseling. If a feeling continues to get in your way
of taking care of yourself, talk with a health professional about
counseling.
Test Your Knowledge
Complete the following sentence.
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To deal with your negative feelings, you need
to:
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Just forget about your feelings.
This answer is incorrect.
You cannot just forget about your feelings. Any
negative feelings that you have can affect your ability to follow your diet.
The correct answer is c. Accept your feelings without judging them. The first
step is to recognize them. Then, you can deal with them in a healthy way so
they don't interfere with your ability to care for yourself.
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Eat only foods on your "dislike" list.
This answer is incorrect.
You do not have to eat any food that you don't
like. The correct answer is c. Accept your feelings without judging them.
First, recognize them, then accept them. Next, you can deal with them in a
healthy way so they don't interfere with your ability to care for
yourself.
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Accept your feelings.
This answer is correct.
You need to accept your feelings without
judging them. First, recognize them, then accept them. Next, you can deal with
them in a healthy way so they don't interfere with your ability to care for
yourself.
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Talk yourself out of eating "bad" foods.
This answer is incorrect.
There are no bad foods. All kinds of foods can
be eaten on a diet for diabetes. The correct answer is c. Accept your feelings
without judging them. First, recognize them, then accept them. Next, you can
deal with them in a healthy way so they don't interfere with your ability to
care for yourself.
Now that you have read this
information, you may be ready to deal with your negative feelings about a diet
for diabetes. You know that positive feelings about yourself and your diet can
also help motivate you to stay on your diet for diabetes.
Talk with your diabetes specialist (doctor, registered dietitian, or certified diabetes educator).
If you have questions or have
identified areas that you need help with, take it with you when you visit your
diabetes specialist.
If you would like more information on dealing with your
feelings about diabetes, the following resources are available:
Organization
| American Diabetes Association (ADA) |
| 1701 North Beauregard Street |
| Alexandria, VA 22311 |
| Phone: | 1-800-DIABETES (1-800-342-2383) |
| E-mail: | AskADA@diabetes.org |
| Web Address: | www.diabetes.org |
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The American Diabetes Association (ADA) is a national organization
for health professionals and consumers. Almost every state has a local office.
ADA sets the standards for the care of people with diabetes. Its focus is on
research for the prevention and treatment of all types of diabetes. ADA
provides patient and professional education mainly through its publications,
which include the monthly magazine Diabetes Forecast,
books, brochures, cookbooks and meal planning guides, and pamphlets. ADA also
provides information for parents about caring for a child with diabetes.
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